06-11-2011, 08:29 PM
(This post was last modified: 06-11-2011, 10:57 PM by Brandenx781.)
Quote:For Oregon, I have a couple friends up there who have both agreed to let me live with them
That's a great move. But remember, you also still need money for your own supplies until you can find a job that pays a good amount of money. Well this doesn't apply if your friends agree to have you just mooch off their food and their materials they use. If you are planning to move, then you should make sure you got enough money to get to Oregon, as well has some extra money just incase anything starts to bound to happen during your trip or during your stay at your friend's house.
Quote: Usually the police are called because my mom had thrown me against the wall and my sister calls the cops saying that I was throwing my mom around. When asked by the police, my sister says "I was in my room, and my mom has a bad knee. She can't throw my brother... just please get them to stop."
This was kind of the hints they were trying to possibly give you that they didn't want you anymore. Knowing that you're adopted you aren't blood related to them. Even so, this is not the first time. So they were trying to get rid of you somehow. And they thought that this was a way. But having your mom wanting you to leave by resorting to this sort of method is something else. I think you should have a talk with the cops also if you really want to try. If you don't think nothing is going to work against your mom then don't talk to her. Your sister has seriously manipulated your mother's mind and I don't know if there's anything you can do about it but just have her believe everything from your sister. I suggest that you should hurry up and get out while you still can before something else drastic happens which can possibly get you arrested.
Anon Wrote:I think you deserved it
Oh shut up already. Read the thread before posting something stupid. The OP obviously stated that he was the one being abused by his sister so he tried to push her to make her stop. Not push as in the terms of harsh and critical violence, but pushing as a matter of self-defense and as a last resort. She was throwing stuff at him and was about to do stuff to him, do you think words are just going to put an end to a situation, when things just got worse? He was just defending himself and there's nothing wrong against it.
There's a difference between pushing someone for self-defense and pushing someone just to purposely harm someone.
Yes, maybe pushing wasn't a great thing to do to, especially to a girl, but he legit had to do it. When you get into a serious fight with someone, you get an adrenaline rush and don't know what the hell to do sometimes, so you just try to do whatever you can to stop the fight. The OP just couldn't think straight. He just pushed her to try and make her stop, but his sister didn't want to listen. His sister didn't even want to listen to any of his words asking her to stop, so it's pretty much HER fault of why she got pushed.
Don't judge until you put yourself in someone else's shoes.
GoodLuck!
- Brandenx781
HJT Team. Deltron <3 RDCA <3 Quintus <3