A friend needs help.

[Canoris]

We are. And we are sorta dating, but she still just can't feel the power too.

You sir are a rarity amongst the multitude. I am sympathetically obligated to share my experiences with this beautiful yet superficially atrocious process. Most people who experience low self-esteem are generally unable to function either emotionally, physically, spiritually, generating a normal state of homeostasis. Most cases this is due to severe trauma, but can be borne through many other abnormalities (abnormalities in family life these days is rapidly becoming a consistency), but generally what the person needs is a dedicated, perpetually-loving friend or any one-on-one relationship. Assuming that the person is a lazy fudge, you need to burn them hard. Flame them all to hell and back; but the toughest part is differentiating between indolence and sincerity of issue.

BTW, whats up S0rath?

You know her a little to well Sir, and thank your for at least saying i am not average. I actually apprieacate it. But will pushing her that hard just make her brake? Because that what worries me. I don't want to force her against her will that much.

The only true path to a persons heart is time. Spend time with her; if she displays manipulative behavior, simply confront her with it. If you uphold a line of open communication, then you are going to achieve a lot more.
The reason I am presenting generic advice is because relationships are a case-to-case basis; which means you must maneuver through it at the right pace and emotional intensity. Sir, don't give up; that only reinforces the already crumbling esteem of the person. And what a sad moment it is to see a person fall, when you could have saved there life; it haunts you for the rest of your life.