06-03-2011, 09:16 AM
Okay I'll try to make this quick and easy to read.
I have been in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for almost two years.
I love her a lot, but the connection seems to be fading a little more everyday.
I haven't been able to go see friends or really talk to girls because she searches my phone all the time and is quite jealous of me even looking at another girl.
I am the same way to an extent, I'm just not as vocal about it and understand that being friends with the opposite sex doesn't always mean there is an ulterior motive.
She has been staying at my house for the last two weeks and is leaving Tuesday to go back to her house.
I'm considering breaking up with her. In ways I want too, In ways I don't.
I'm scared to see her move on with another guy and imagining another guy with her. But I wish that wasn't my only reason in not breaking up with her.
I want to be able to explore my possibilities and have more freedom. My girlfriend is beautiful and awesome and tends to my needs. It's just that I kind of want to meet someone else.
Someone else new. Someone else I can share my thoughts and insights with and enjoy being around that doesn;t carry the same routine as my girlfriend does.
If I break up with her I know she is going to be very upset and cry frequently and probably call all the time.
What is the best away to go about doing this. I have a lot of relationship experience from many girls so I'm open to most ideas.
Thanks for the help guys.
I have been in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for almost two years.
I love her a lot, but the connection seems to be fading a little more everyday.
I haven't been able to go see friends or really talk to girls because she searches my phone all the time and is quite jealous of me even looking at another girl.
I am the same way to an extent, I'm just not as vocal about it and understand that being friends with the opposite sex doesn't always mean there is an ulterior motive.
She has been staying at my house for the last two weeks and is leaving Tuesday to go back to her house.
I'm considering breaking up with her. In ways I want too, In ways I don't.
I'm scared to see her move on with another guy and imagining another guy with her. But I wish that wasn't my only reason in not breaking up with her.
I want to be able to explore my possibilities and have more freedom. My girlfriend is beautiful and awesome and tends to my needs. It's just that I kind of want to meet someone else.
Someone else new. Someone else I can share my thoughts and insights with and enjoy being around that doesn;t carry the same routine as my girlfriend does.
If I break up with her I know she is going to be very upset and cry frequently and probably call all the time.
What is the best away to go about doing this. I have a lot of relationship experience from many girls so I'm open to most ideas.
Thanks for the help guys.