05-11-2011, 07:17 AM
Well bro, I would like to start off by telling you I've experienced the same sort of feeling; when you're lonely and you just want to cry. This happened to me when I was in boarding school, and I can be with you on this one.
Another, you have to get out more! Go out, meet some friends, try and have a positive mind set, because then positive things will attract to you. This is not a religious speech, and it has nothing to do with religion no matter what religion/belief you have. If you keep on thinking "I have no one to talk to, I have no one to be with" then that's exactly what's going to happen.
You basically have to open up more to the world. Don't keep things to yourself, find a good friend who listens and tell him/her all your problems and don't be ashamed. I've tried it and it works. Just know that your friends are there for you.
By opening up, I mean
1) Talk to random people in your class you don't talk to, like girls etc. Find the ones that have the same traits as you.
2) Don't be shy. Go up there and start making moves, making your mark and let others know about you.
3) Don't be afraid to let people know you're smart. You can still be smart and cool.
4) Invite friends over, so you're not lonely.
5) Don't have a sad attitude, because then you WILL always feel sad. Listen to music that gets you in a good mood. I listen to Dubstep, Trance, Techno and House. It helps a lot.
So, you need to get out there and just make friends in real life. I mean, Facebook is virtual. I can be talking to you 24/7 on facebook and not talk to you in real life. If you're only going to talk to people on Facebook, you won't get them into a closer friendship with you. You have to talk to them in Real Life too.
With your girl problem, you'll find one. It's really hard finding one which has the same traits/ similar traits to you. And it's not easy getting a girl. You have to get to know them first, until you know them very well, and then you'll start liking them. As soon as that "Like" part kicks in, make your move. Just casually tell her you like her, don't act like a gangsta hip hop guy that asks girls out like "Sup Chick I just wanted to tell you you fly and I like you".
Another, you have to get out more! Go out, meet some friends, try and have a positive mind set, because then positive things will attract to you. This is not a religious speech, and it has nothing to do with religion no matter what religion/belief you have. If you keep on thinking "I have no one to talk to, I have no one to be with" then that's exactly what's going to happen.
You basically have to open up more to the world. Don't keep things to yourself, find a good friend who listens and tell him/her all your problems and don't be ashamed. I've tried it and it works. Just know that your friends are there for you.
By opening up, I mean
1) Talk to random people in your class you don't talk to, like girls etc. Find the ones that have the same traits as you.
2) Don't be shy. Go up there and start making moves, making your mark and let others know about you.
3) Don't be afraid to let people know you're smart. You can still be smart and cool.
4) Invite friends over, so you're not lonely.
5) Don't have a sad attitude, because then you WILL always feel sad. Listen to music that gets you in a good mood. I listen to Dubstep, Trance, Techno and House. It helps a lot.
So, you need to get out there and just make friends in real life. I mean, Facebook is virtual. I can be talking to you 24/7 on facebook and not talk to you in real life. If you're only going to talk to people on Facebook, you won't get them into a closer friendship with you. You have to talk to them in Real Life too.
With your girl problem, you'll find one. It's really hard finding one which has the same traits/ similar traits to you. And it's not easy getting a girl. You have to get to know them first, until you know them very well, and then you'll start liking them. As soon as that "Like" part kicks in, make your move. Just casually tell her you like her, don't act like a gangsta hip hop guy that asks girls out like "Sup Chick I just wanted to tell you you fly and I like you".