05-03-2011, 04:11 PM
Quote:Try not to express your feelings for her, at least to her. It's obvious that she wants to be friend with you. I think you should just be friends. You can find many women in your life but you will not find many friends.
However, I already did. Ever since I met her, I made it so obvious. I just don't even know how we're going to be friends when we'll just end up in the same type of situation.
Quote:1) Talk to her like I said above, and hope she understands and doesn't "put your business out there"
or
2) Break it off with her, and move on. Just be friends if you truly wish to and just be a friend.
I think I might just move on. I'm not even sure. I mean, I think she's just a shallow girl to be honest.
Quote:This sounds like typical school kid relationship, the girl is to shy to admit so she gets her friends to say things and it all gets embarrassing etc... Maybe she's confused herself and can't articulate that to you? 16 is an interesting age.
Well we are both sophomores in high school. I don't think she's shy, because she's loud, but not to an extent where she becomes obnoxious.
And how is 16 an interesting age
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And everything that I've ever done for her, it puts us back to being strangers. I mean, yeah we look at each other, but we don't even talk to each other that much in person. I've been trying to get her to notice me, but none of my methods worked, so now it's back to being the same strangers again. This situation just turned out the wrong way. I didn't expect for her to tell the guy to do this type of act.
Thing is, I don't think I'm going to be able to tell her straight up that I liked her, and about my feelings for her. I might regret it later. People told me that I'm just being a pussy for not telling her, and I feel the same way too. However, no one placed themselves in my shoes. What if she just laughs and walk away? What if she just tells me she's not interested and asks to be friends? What if she tells everyone again about my feelings? I don't want to keep crushing on the girl who has no interest in me. And I don't see a point in being friends if she doesn't even notice me.
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