04-23-2011, 08:09 PM
(04-23-2011, 08:02 PM)The Holy crap. Wrote: Me and her used to be extremely close. To the point where we would act like we were dating, but we weren't. We'd do everything together, and we used to have alot of fun, but since she met her current boyfriend, she's changed way too much, and everyone is noticing. Even her parents don't like the new her (According to her status').
I just want my old friend back, with or without the possibility of dating, that's at the back of my mind. I doubt me not being in her life is as troubling for her as it is for me, but that's just because of the feelings I have for her.
If you have no other options left, you could try getting her in private and talking to her. Maybe she does feel that way. You say that you don't talk to her, and maybe thats why she's reacting adversely to you.
But if you go this route, and sh*t hits the fan, you might end up in a bigger mess. Its a tricky situation, and you should handle it carefully.
Tell her that you want to be friends, just like you used to. Remind her of some of the good times you've both had.