04-14-2011, 10:19 PM
(04-14-2011, 04:48 PM)Infinity Wrote: Not that i'm encouraging this stuff, but I would have beaten the sh*t out of him as well lol. People don't really mess around with me though, since i'm a fairly big guy, in comparison to most of the people my age. It's funny though, now that I think about it, you're going through the same thing as me. I asked her out a long time ago, and before I said anything, somehow she knew I was going to ask her out and she said yes before I even got a word in when I walked up to her lol, I'll never forget that. Tried working time out of my own schedule to plan a date with her, and more than half of the time, she had stuff going instead. She told me that she really liked me, and all of her friends said she liked me a lot too, but she couldn't sacrifice some time to go on a date with me? She broke up, and said it wasn't fair for her (no idea why), and by the way she broke up with me, i'm left behind with unanswered questions. Still don't know why we broke up, or why she doesn't talk to me, and why she ignores all of my messages now.
She started ignoring my messages around a week before we broke up. Fortunately, depending on how you look at it, she hasn't hooked up with another guy yet. But I do know that another guy is interested in her, and that he is trying to get with her right now. If it does happen though, even though I don't have any control over what she/they want to do if they do decide to get together. I'll have my fun knocking him around a bit if I find out that he's responsible for anything that would cause me and her to break up. I've come to a few conclusions, but i'm not sure yet. He just better hope that I don't find out. Stealing someones girlfriend, you better be expected to take the consequences. Something happened between us a week before she actually said anything, and now that she's ignoring all of my messages, I know there must be something going on in behind the scenes that I don't know about.
I fully agree, I cannot stand when another person gets in the way of a relationship. My "Best Friend" came to me with every single little problem she had with her ex, and although I wanted to say "Just break up with him, and go out with me :3" I held back, and gave her some advice that I would have done if I was in her position (Which happened to be break up with him). She ignored everything, and guess what happened... He broke up with her, now she's the one sitting there mopping around all day saying she still "Loves" him.
I would do the exact same thing, beat the living crap out of this kid if he did have something to do with you two breaking up, that's not something a guy should do to someone, especially another guy. I hope everything returns to normal for you, and you two get back to dating, you seem very heartbroken, and that's not a place anyone should be.