04-11-2011, 08:32 PM
(04-11-2011, 07:57 PM)iNviZ Wrote: Im sorry your feeling this way i know that pain.Try and hang with some friends,do stuff you usually dont do.Listen to some rock.Try and lift your spirit the pain will fade away bro.Good luck bro.
Thanks, it's good to hear some sympathetic comments like this at first lol
(04-11-2011, 08:04 PM)Swat Runs Train Wrote: Well you seem to still have your head on your shoulders properly, do you have any interest in trying to get her back or do you think that won't happen or perhaps are ready to move on?
I know it may be irrelevant to you since your views may differ from mine but I personally would be celebrating the fact that I'm newly single and doing whatever I could to take my mind off it.
You may not want to hear this part but if she truly loved you, in my opinion anyways, she would have made time for you. There is always time for someone you love.
I think this is the most controversial thing. Should I try and get her back, or should I move on? I honestly don't have a clue there buddy lol. There's 2 roads to go like you've said, but it's damn hard to choose one.. I'm going to have quite a bit of trouble with that part. Just need to take some time out to think after calming down for a day or two. I don't think it would be wise to make the decision right now. I wouldn't consider this my highest mind set i'm able to reach for now.
Some people are like that, and in some ways, it's kinda good to be back single again. You get to do what you love to do, have more personal space and freedom.
I could understand that part about you saying that she would make time for me. I know if I loved someone I would make time for them and sacrifices to create that time. But in some of those cases, it was time between me or her family, so i'm not sure how far she would be willing to push that boundary. I would understand with family though for sure. Great advice though.. I've got a few things to think about to get myself back together again.
(04-11-2011, 08:06 PM)The High Roller Wrote: Wow, sorry Infinity. Just move on, and flirt with some new girls. Thats what I am doing, I used to have a crush on a chick for 3 years. Damn thats bad, never got her either. Screw that, move on. Your better than that.
It's quite alright, life's rollercoaster has it's ups and downs. You know when you get at the bottom, you gotta come right back up to the top soon enough for another time. I know it's tough having a crush on a girl for a while lol. Happened to me a few times before, with a girl that already had a boyfriend, but we were best friends for years before that.
I'd like to think i'm better then that, but you know nobody is perfect. People have weaknesses, but I really thought it would work out. We were going strong for a while there, and then all of a sudden it was like we hit a dead end or a road block lol.
I appreciate that though man