04-08-2011, 06:51 PM
(04-08-2011, 06:27 PM)monique12345 Wrote: Susan, you need to register :-)
Your words are appreciated, true and very insightful. You get me and the situation. I love to stay in touch. How can we do this? Typical, i give good advice but at times we need it back and it has been truely a fresh of breath air to have someone just understand. I am finding it hard and came to the realisation that it is because of what u have stated above. I may be latching a bit since u stated u have been through it and it must have been aweful. It is captivating despite red flags and alarms screaming at me. Some men will be after vulnerable woman and I think i am now stronger but only just. Hope to hear from u soon and thankyou sincerely again.
Although I probably will not have anything helpful to say, I do agree with the idea. People do prey on the weak. Bullies, Businesses, Government, Men, Women, you can name out a full list of 'groups' that will do the same. It's easier to prey on the insecurities that people have, emotionally or physically, and people look for the reaction, or benefit from it.
You can see it in all places, but i'm not trying to sticker everything as a negative. There are some people that do the opposite, which balances things out a bit. There's a philosophical idea to it that resides solely in human nature. People generally like to take the easier routes to accomplish certain tasks.
Look for the positives in everything though, and you'll get far in life.