04-03-2011, 04:42 PM
Dan08, thank u for taking the time to email me. This is the first post which is shedding a different perspective. i am unsure if u have read the threade from the beginning. Now everyone, given what Dan08 has written am i jumping the point that this guy is only want to sleep with me and that is it? We know he is confused, and i started to believe from your posts as it made sense that he is manipulative and just hetting better at it. He just loves woman organs and even ried to mislead me (whether deliberate or not) to get laid. As the other guest wrote, he is getting better at manipulating me and some else wrote, he is not serious and banging an attractive woman is better than just banging someone. right, it may be seen that i like to see the good in people but i noticed how when i ask a question he would turn it back to me rather than answer it, makingme often feel bad like pitty sex he would even go for. he says he likes me and everyone has choices. However, thre is no choice when u tell someone half the truth or keep changing the truth. Nothing he says makes sense and he lies too. Unfortunately Dan08 when i asked him of his feelings for me. He said he wants me and have sex before t evolves to a relationship. hen after 30secs he write he has no time for a relationship. Then he write he thinks i am nice. Now, he is either very confused and his frustrations towards me is because i am not giving in as he wanted or this is part of his strategy. I was feeling so bad, questioning my own behaviour as i never like to hurt anyone. In his case when he only contacts me sometimes and chats sometimes, makes me questions it a\his intentions. Last few long chats form him were just sex. Now i am not like that and when he wrote i am questioning him and assuming him, i let me write. When i showed him how contradicting he is writing, suddenly i noticed a pause from him and he wrote, it is silly. He said he imaginesus doing it and thinks of me alot. He is strict he does not do that with anyone else. Now, one of the other members wrote that he is using various people for his own sexual pleasure and is a player full stop. He does not care that he hurts me so i better stop it here. Weekend was good to not have any contact with him. I am off someone who lies and not knowing what they are saying or doing. I deserve more despite liking this person, he is wrong. At the end he just wrote i would be a very good councillor. He makes me feel tired and i have let alot go in trying to help in and figure him out. I have words drummed in by the guest as i do not think i would cope with being used and dumped or even being strung along to be used and dumped when he pleases which is how it seems today. I am hot, attractive and beautiful, intelligent and cannot believe this guy has me questioning myself in how i treat him and sleeping with him is a good thing. This goes against all my beliefs and values and i dont even really know him. He does not want to go out and date so i have no idea what he wants from me really. Good point made is he can pay for sex so why should i give it for free. Plus, i dont do sex, it is only love making for me with the right sincere guy. There are some out there. I see him in 6 hours and feel quite happy class is finishing soon. I dont think i will let him take me home, nor will i sit next to him, but i will sit back with the group. He will see me very happy and that i do not care as he used to be happy when i was sad. Weird. My gut feelings yell out, just the blimin mind that gets in the way when one questions the emotions you feel. This site is great to help unravel the confusion and receive opinions, thus making it easier to choose the best one for you in the given situation. I will post up wheat happens today. I have not received opinion on my question: should i tell him that i know what he is doing and that treating woman this way will hit him back, probably through his daughter.