I think I'll just get straight to my problem, that I've had for 2 years.
I think, I'm a mildly attractive male, I have small amounts of acne, but it makes a definition on my face. Getting girls at a party, or hooking up with a friend's friend is no struggle for me.
I've never seen to be able to get a real relationship going.
I have been single for about 2 and a half years now, and I try as hard as I can to get a steady relationship. I'll end up talking to the person, they'll do a little flirting back, and I think we hit things off. In the last case, after a few weeks I went over to her house, we had sex. After that, I've had almost no contact with her. This happens many times, it's like they are almost expecting that it was my sole intention to get in their pants.
I'm not sure if it's my reputation of the past, which I've tried to keep a secret. I've dated around 8 girls over a period of 2 girls, longest being 6 months. I have always dreamed of a lasting relationship, I would do anything to be like those couples who you see have been together for 2-3 years and are still happy. I think I am unsatisfied with the girl. Perhaps subconscious, because I really did love some of them.
Unfortunately I've cheated on every girlfriend I've had. When I do cheat, it happens of the heat of the moment, I tell the girl right away, it's a one time thing. After every time I do this, I get super depressed for a few weeks. I regret this so much, and I always wonder why I would do that, and promise not to do it again, but I end up repeating it again.
Now, I can't get a girl, I'm getting depressed, and I feel what's going through my life, I really need someone in my life that I can be with.
I have told most of the girls I wanted to start a relationship with that I am looking for a steady relationship, but their reply is usually a chuckle, a laugh, or something off-topic. I've tried approaching them in various ways, nothing works.
I asked one of the girls one time, when we were having a pretty deep conversation, she said "You pushed me away, you hinted me off", when I swear I've done the opposite, I haven't been "hinting" anyone, I've been very direct.
I'm not even sure I deserve a girlfriend, because I know I will end up hurting them, and I will just be wasting their time, because they could be looking for better people.
I really don't know what to do. Is it my reputation, or just bad luck?
I know I really didn't phase it so you could give me a "right" answer, I just felt like this was the best place to express myself.
So, Supportforums, should I give up?
ugh.
I'd really appreciate, ANY, feedback to this. I'm feeling alone.
I think, I'm a mildly attractive male, I have small amounts of acne, but it makes a definition on my face. Getting girls at a party, or hooking up with a friend's friend is no struggle for me.
I've never seen to be able to get a real relationship going.
I have been single for about 2 and a half years now, and I try as hard as I can to get a steady relationship. I'll end up talking to the person, they'll do a little flirting back, and I think we hit things off. In the last case, after a few weeks I went over to her house, we had sex. After that, I've had almost no contact with her. This happens many times, it's like they are almost expecting that it was my sole intention to get in their pants.
I'm not sure if it's my reputation of the past, which I've tried to keep a secret. I've dated around 8 girls over a period of 2 girls, longest being 6 months. I have always dreamed of a lasting relationship, I would do anything to be like those couples who you see have been together for 2-3 years and are still happy. I think I am unsatisfied with the girl. Perhaps subconscious, because I really did love some of them.
Unfortunately I've cheated on every girlfriend I've had. When I do cheat, it happens of the heat of the moment, I tell the girl right away, it's a one time thing. After every time I do this, I get super depressed for a few weeks. I regret this so much, and I always wonder why I would do that, and promise not to do it again, but I end up repeating it again.
Now, I can't get a girl, I'm getting depressed, and I feel what's going through my life, I really need someone in my life that I can be with.
I have told most of the girls I wanted to start a relationship with that I am looking for a steady relationship, but their reply is usually a chuckle, a laugh, or something off-topic. I've tried approaching them in various ways, nothing works.
I asked one of the girls one time, when we were having a pretty deep conversation, she said "You pushed me away, you hinted me off", when I swear I've done the opposite, I haven't been "hinting" anyone, I've been very direct.
I'm not even sure I deserve a girlfriend, because I know I will end up hurting them, and I will just be wasting their time, because they could be looking for better people.
I really don't know what to do. Is it my reputation, or just bad luck?
I know I really didn't phase it so you could give me a "right" answer, I just felt like this was the best place to express myself.
So, Supportforums, should I give up?
ugh.
I'd really appreciate, ANY, feedback to this. I'm feeling alone.