(04-01-2011, 07:42 PM)monique12345 Wrote: Thanks pulse. hard lesson, he is an adult, but it goes to show wisdom does not come with age. after two hours of chatting, i showed him how he was actually going to mislead me to get what he wanted. yet he blurts out after that that he does not play games. he is confused and messed up it seems. i feel pretty stupid everyone for even having this feeling of trying to help him. he obviously does not want to learn or grow up even. he was very hurtful. how to get toughened up?
i get a feeling that he is having a right old laugh at me for hooking me in with the other guys thinking i am good looking. even though he is private and i bleieve him strangely enough. Am i stupid?
It's good that he's confused, maybe he'll contemplate the emotions he's given you. All he's trying to achieve with his manipulative ways is sexual pleasure. As stated by everyone else. Just, stop having feelings for this guy. Remember him as a jerk, a man who doesn't care about you. If there were any guys in the past that have left you to tears, on your knees, imagine them and think as each man in the world as that. But, there are times where you shouldn't and should really let it out. You're not stupid, everyone has had these situations. Good luck, Monique.