04-01-2011, 02:40 AM
thanks
he does not. Actually we had a direct conversation. i have understood he is confused. he says he wants sex, then see if it evoles in a relationship, then he says he has no time for a relationship. my feelings have grown and i feel sick everyone. i told him this is not respectful behaviour and this is why i feel confused and played. it does not help to turn it back to me. he says he often wonders how i am, thinks i am wonderful on one hand and crazy on the other hand. i feel insulted by this. i told him i aint that chick to sleep with such mixed emotions. he says he likes me but i said u can like a plant. bottom line is he dont want more than sex and i love to be with him in this way but the way the conversation is left, he has me further confused. He has said that if he only wanted sex, he would pursue me, take me out, dinner and all of it. He likes me and has not done any of that. What does this mean to any guys out there to explain this to me? He says with some of my writings, he is nervous as i am being so direct, and i see him to be manipulative, yet he goes online to still contact me. Everyone, he is in my mind all the time. it is affecting me in a big way. what is wrong with me? he is unsure how he feels, thinks it is not love but then he has no idea what love feels like. dont know if he got me hoping here again. earlier i wrote he says lets go out on a date, but was that then to just get lucky? i have no idea where we stand. i am surely not affecting him. but maybe he is put up bigger wall than me and i am more vulnerable with less in my life to focus on. again, what is he feeling and what is happening to me? Or am i just a sucker for a lost cause running to the rescue or soemthing stupid like that. Many thanks and sorry for this whining i feel i am doing. I am confused and seek clarity. if i would sleep with him, am i being easy? This guy has got me falling over to a point i almost want him to be falling over.
he does not. Actually we had a direct conversation. i have understood he is confused. he says he wants sex, then see if it evoles in a relationship, then he says he has no time for a relationship. my feelings have grown and i feel sick everyone. i told him this is not respectful behaviour and this is why i feel confused and played. it does not help to turn it back to me. he says he often wonders how i am, thinks i am wonderful on one hand and crazy on the other hand. i feel insulted by this. i told him i aint that chick to sleep with such mixed emotions. he says he likes me but i said u can like a plant. bottom line is he dont want more than sex and i love to be with him in this way but the way the conversation is left, he has me further confused. He has said that if he only wanted sex, he would pursue me, take me out, dinner and all of it. He likes me and has not done any of that. What does this mean to any guys out there to explain this to me? He says with some of my writings, he is nervous as i am being so direct, and i see him to be manipulative, yet he goes online to still contact me. Everyone, he is in my mind all the time. it is affecting me in a big way. what is wrong with me? he is unsure how he feels, thinks it is not love but then he has no idea what love feels like. dont know if he got me hoping here again. earlier i wrote he says lets go out on a date, but was that then to just get lucky? i have no idea where we stand. i am surely not affecting him. but maybe he is put up bigger wall than me and i am more vulnerable with less in my life to focus on. again, what is he feeling and what is happening to me? Or am i just a sucker for a lost cause running to the rescue or soemthing stupid like that. Many thanks and sorry for this whining i feel i am doing. I am confused and seek clarity. if i would sleep with him, am i being easy? This guy has got me falling over to a point i almost want him to be falling over.