03-30-2011, 05:31 AM
Thank you. He does look deep. After having more of a email discussion yesterday. He says he likes me and wants to have sex. He thinks i am soo good looking and hot that he gets turned on just looking at me or even thinking about me. His words not mine. As he has kids but divorced, he mentioned he has little time. but he seems to have time for sex. I asked on another thread when is the best time for this and if this does not make me out to be some cheap easy woman in a skirt. I am an intelligent person who has grown feelings for this guy. i like his directness but he makes me feel bad also. There is a connection but it may be for him just a sexual one. He was so nice in the beginning to me, then he backed of cold and hurtful when i asked him to stop having a pass at me. i thought it is nicer to slowly get to know one another but he thinks he already knows me and wants to know if we are secually compatible to develop a relationship. After a month of emotional turmoil with this guy for being so weird and non responsive to emails and texts, he mentioned that i may be giving into him a bit. I wonder if that is why he is writing to me now asking me if i like kissing and sex, my favouritee positions and how orgasms - the works. I asked him if he wants to meet for lunch and talk and get to know one another and why he was so weird with me. I even stated that i like him alot and a physical act is not just a physical act for me. Am i going to get hurt and he does not care? He clearly stated that he is a man with needs. I like it if a man considers my needs. how can he respect me if i am that easy to just not date, meet him at his convenience when he has time and he might get strange again when I even whisper emotions. I am good looking, every says it, but i believe beauty is within and i care for people and their hearts/emotions. Have i made a mistake to like the wrong guy? or do i have some twisted relationship with the idea of sex? He commented that i think sex seems to diminish a relationship. or is he just manipulating me again? he does not contact me regularly and his life seems to be run by his children. I have actually sent him an email asking him to think whether he is treating me like he wants a man to treat his daughter. if he wont wait, then i guess iam not that special for him i have written as i have needs on all levels of attraction. spiritual, emotional, physical/sexual and intellectual. What are your thoughts on all this everyone? Is he just wanting an escort girl and has some serious emotional issues?