03-27-2011, 01:06 AM
From a female perspective, i can agree to many who have stated that if you love her, then say it. When you next see her, ask her out and ask her for her advice on whether she would like to bring her daughter along. Keep in mind, that she may not want to as children do attach themselves to individuals and the last thing any mother wants is to introduce every date she has with a man. You seem like a very down to earth guy who genuinely likes if not loves this woman. Why not spend a bit of time with her and then after reevaluating your feelings (they may not stay the same) tell her if you still feel in love. There is a difference with being in love and loving a person. As for what to do on your date. A nice thing could be is to give her a card with 3 options and your telephone number. She can either call you which option she likes or when you give her this card, arrange to meet for a coffee the next day. It is unconventional, cute and it allows her to have some freedom in what and how she wants to do this (with or without her daughter). The fact that you recognise that she comes as a package will be very appreciated and you will be further respected by mindy to give her the right to decide what is best for her daughter and their relationship. if you like any more advice, just PM me. Follow your heart and show your considerate nature which you are already displaying here online.