03-22-2011, 01:45 AM
hi there, as a female who has just been in this situation with a guy i can totally relate. it would be such a missed opportunity to not tell her how you truely feel. I know it must be hard, but it does seem like she really likes you. She may be afraid, like i was. My situation has no happy ending as we both just left it alone and I have been wanting something unique and innovative to happen to have him show that he genuinely cares and gets rid of all my doubts about him. if you really like her, pick yourself up and ask her for a talk. Look her in the eyes and tell her how you feel. Your gut instincts will tell you once and for all if she is the right girl for you to be with and it will give her a chance to think about it and come back to you. Don't expect, assume and even anticipate a certain scenario. Go to a park or a quiet public place and be respectful as you obviously are being. Before even doing this, you may want to focus on something else for a bit (i know it is hard but if i can do it, so can you) as to not come across desperate. Emotions are hard but you control only yours, not hers. There will be this sense of freedom once you told her as then you never have to guess again and know where you stand. There is no point pining away for someone who just is not interested or worse, playing games. Be mature about this and take ownership of your own feelings. There is never anything wrong about telling someone how you feel. if it is not reciprocated then you know. You will hurt for awhile but then you will move on. Life happens regardless. If she does want something more, then you know and be in the relationship you want. Confidence is key, you can do it. Good luck.