(03-18-2011, 05:41 PM)GrammarPhreak Wrote: To start off, I advise never to have a crush on a girl for a long time. If she seems to not be interested in you, move on because you will just depress yourself even more by keeping that crush. Since you live in a small town, it will be a lot harder to get a girl you really like, depending on your personality & such. Be more outgoing & always have confidence in yourself when it comes to girls, but don't act too conceited. In other words, go talk to a girl & don't be afraid of rejection. Act yourself when you do so, if you don't like the way you act, change it. Find a girl that fits you, find a girl alone one day and get at her, talk to her. Get out more, that would be a plus in getting people to know you a little better. Only other opinions, move out of that little town buddy. Good luck,
Tell him how to try, I think he needs it.
(03-18-2011, 02:58 PM)Psychosis Wrote: with the first one i did EVERYTHING i possibly could, but on the second one i havent really been able to try too much because i mean just absolutely no time at all at school to talk. and idk i just can't (of course a little is my low as hell self confidence when it comes to girls). plus most of the girls in my school that arent ho's dont really go for a guy that's like me. (Long hair, Play bass / and do vocals in a metal band.)
We can only tell you advice, it's up to you to go out & do it. You've found part of your problem, confidence.
if i could get out of this town trust me i would, and i don't really try to keep crush's just like i cant really seem to help who they are....
Ya trust me iv always known my confidence is the issue I try to fix it and i have with everything but girls -.-..... if i am talking to them with just being friends in my head then i dont have a problem, its when ever i actually like them that the confidence goes down hill.