03-18-2011, 12:23 AM
Are there any updates with this situation?
Personally, boring spells are going to happen in every relationship. I've complained to my husband time and again that we fall into routines and I'm bored out of my mind. But that's life, he has work and I have college. But if the boring spell happens on the first date, either you guys didn't click right or you're not giving her enough of a chance.
If she's quiet, maybe she's just shy. First dates are kind of nerve wracking because we put so many expectations on them. Maybe let her choose what she wants to do for the next date so she's more within her comfort zone. She may have an easier time opening up that way :]
Personally, boring spells are going to happen in every relationship. I've complained to my husband time and again that we fall into routines and I'm bored out of my mind. But that's life, he has work and I have college. But if the boring spell happens on the first date, either you guys didn't click right or you're not giving her enough of a chance.
If she's quiet, maybe she's just shy. First dates are kind of nerve wracking because we put so many expectations on them. Maybe let her choose what she wants to do for the next date so she's more within her comfort zone. She may have an easier time opening up that way :]