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thanks. i guess i have grown to like him and i am confused with my emotions. can i trust that he just isn't nice to me for a one night stand? i find that i think of him often and i don't have much else in my life like he has (2 kids and work). i like to think that he thinks of me and that i can trust his words which he sent yesterday of really thinking i am a nice person. is that the same as him saying he really likes me? it seems there has been some game of tug and war and i find it hard now to step back. Maybe distance will give me some clarity on the situation. It is amazing to feel strongly for 2 people. One i am with for 11yrs and the other i just met 5 weeks ago but has come in like a tornado. i am really unsure how to interpret my emotions and handle them when i see him. right now, i wish to not have asked him to not grow any feelings for me and to not kiss me. I said this to be faithful but i feel feeling these emotions is being unfaithful. what should i do? I really do not want to mess things up with both these nice guys. But i am unsure if the guy in my class is being genuine and not manipulating me again.

If you're willing to throw away 11yrs for one guy then you should really slow down. Like snail paced. Analyze what is going on completely and yes it is okay to feel that way it's not being unfaithful. Just be careful in whatever you do.