03-17-2011, 12:27 AM
thanks. i guess i have grown to like him and i am confused with my emotions. can i trust that he just isn't nice to me for a one night stand? i find that i think of him often and i don't have much else in my life like he has (2 kids and work). i like to think that he thinks of me and that i can trust his words which he sent yesterday of really thinking i am a nice person. is that the same as him saying he really likes me? it seems there has been some game of tug and war and i find it hard now to step back. Maybe distance will give me some clarity on the situation. It is amazing to feel strongly for 2 people. One i am with for 11yrs and the other i just met 5 weeks ago but has come in like a tornado. i am really unsure how to interpret my emotions and handle them when i see him. right now, i wish to not have asked him to not grow any feelings for me and to not kiss me. I said this to be faithful but i feel feeling these emotions is being unfaithful. what should i do? I really do not want to mess things up with both these nice guys. But i am unsure if the guy in my class is being genuine and not manipulating me again.