03-16-2011, 02:58 AM
Hi guys,
thanks for the posts. I sent him an email today after stewing about this all as yeah, it has been very emotionally stressful. I just wanted to call it truce and said consider this my last email to clear up any misunderstandings. I basivally told him that my intention was to just be supportive and it is a shame that things have evolved like this.
i was a bit nervous to send it as he said to not contact him. But I felt it is in my nature to at least not end things on a bad note and especially wrong impression (taking the bigger boat).
Surprisingly, he emailed back saying that he really thinks i am nice person and that he wants to be friends. He asked that we civil and I agreed to that. AGAIN - i think i am being bloody manipulated despite feeling now really happy about this outcome. To have someone that afftects your mood like this is something that concerns me. What the hell is wrong with me and why am I allowing my emotions to get the better of me? I think I am too kind and maybe after a day this guy started to miss me again. I am just waiting for a 360 degree turnaround on this. i got another post stating that he could be emotionally unstable and to put my guards up. I have decided that i will not contact him. he is welcome too. Got to do this rather than just say it.
Well, if there is any advice on what he is playing at and how i can protect me then i will appreciate trying it. For some reason this person opens my heart for him and to be taken advantage of is probably inevitable. I like him, but i have not liked the way he has made me feel. it seems he speaks before thinking and he is having difficulties with whatever he emotions he has for me.
I do not want to be sucked in again....This site is awesome and it is cool to receive this support. Thanks everyone.
thanks for the posts. I sent him an email today after stewing about this all as yeah, it has been very emotionally stressful. I just wanted to call it truce and said consider this my last email to clear up any misunderstandings. I basivally told him that my intention was to just be supportive and it is a shame that things have evolved like this.
i was a bit nervous to send it as he said to not contact him. But I felt it is in my nature to at least not end things on a bad note and especially wrong impression (taking the bigger boat).
Surprisingly, he emailed back saying that he really thinks i am nice person and that he wants to be friends. He asked that we civil and I agreed to that. AGAIN - i think i am being bloody manipulated despite feeling now really happy about this outcome. To have someone that afftects your mood like this is something that concerns me. What the hell is wrong with me and why am I allowing my emotions to get the better of me? I think I am too kind and maybe after a day this guy started to miss me again. I am just waiting for a 360 degree turnaround on this. i got another post stating that he could be emotionally unstable and to put my guards up. I have decided that i will not contact him. he is welcome too. Got to do this rather than just say it.
Well, if there is any advice on what he is playing at and how i can protect me then i will appreciate trying it. For some reason this person opens my heart for him and to be taken advantage of is probably inevitable. I like him, but i have not liked the way he has made me feel. it seems he speaks before thinking and he is having difficulties with whatever he emotions he has for me.
I do not want to be sucked in again....This site is awesome and it is cool to receive this support. Thanks everyone.