(03-13-2011, 10:52 PM)ThermalYew1 Wrote: It just seems like they all go for the jerks... and unfortunately im not like that... I'm a really quiet person and i'm totally lousy at making jokes... idk... it just gets annoying... it's gotten to the point that even at work my friends are starting to worry about me cause im always down... but I haven't told them what was bothering me.. I just think... i was meant to be alone...
you have no clue how much girls love guy's who actually know when to shut the fuc up
silence is NOT bad, it keeps you neatrul, you dont make or go back in progress
excessive talking is bad, you can annoy the fudge out of a chic and all that good stuff
just moderate them, with confidence issues alcohol is perfect, cause you just dont give a fudge about your self image and you become a completely different person
I must admit, even tho alot of girls think im 'fine' I still get shy alot, and I need a beer, or two, or pack just to get social...
(03-15-2011, 12:44 PM)ThermalYew1 Wrote: Yeah, you guys are correct... Unfortunately this weeks spring break but as soon as school starts back up next week i'll try what u guys said.. I'll try talking to some of them in my class and hopefully eventually that will give me enough courage to talk to that girl at work... but what u guys are saying is also what my friends say to me... that I don't try... I kinda understand what their saying that I don't try but at the same time I don't... its just that I get intimated by everyone... idk..
im exactly the same way. This crap sucks
and I have a lot of girls that are friends, and they know I am flirtatious so they dont care that I ask them so many 'romantic' questions and crap, but alot of girls honestly dont like the drunkin loud mouthed pric with poor hygine (so dont get to drunk)
you can also work out, girls love motivational dudes and crap
alot, if you have poor hygine get better
you know all that basic shyt
slowly getting better