03-15-2011, 03:15 PM
Alright so let me get this straight.
You came to a new country and one of your co-workers was or still is attracted to you. He attempted to build a relationship with you but you declined and asked to be friends. You both agreed on being friends and as soon as he ran into a problem with his life he cut communications with you and you tried to help. He ignored but you stayed persistent and continued to try and contact him. Now he wants nothing to do with you?
There are a few things that could have happened. First of them is that all he wanted was a hookup. You didn't tell me how long you two have been "friends" so I'm not sure how plausible this is. Either way, this could be it. As soon as he realized that he wasn't getting anywhere with you he didn't want to bother being just friends since that was not his original intention.
There is a possibility that he still has feelings for you and because there won't be a relationship he just wants to avoid you to make it easier on himself. So he can get over you.
How many emails did you send? How long were you trying to contact him and how often?
You came to a new country and one of your co-workers was or still is attracted to you. He attempted to build a relationship with you but you declined and asked to be friends. You both agreed on being friends and as soon as he ran into a problem with his life he cut communications with you and you tried to help. He ignored but you stayed persistent and continued to try and contact him. Now he wants nothing to do with you?
There are a few things that could have happened. First of them is that all he wanted was a hookup. You didn't tell me how long you two have been "friends" so I'm not sure how plausible this is. Either way, this could be it. As soon as he realized that he wasn't getting anywhere with you he didn't want to bother being just friends since that was not his original intention.
There is a possibility that he still has feelings for you and because there won't be a relationship he just wants to avoid you to make it easier on himself. So he can get over you.
How many emails did you send? How long were you trying to contact him and how often?
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Are you trolling me? I don't care. Your thread may help someone that was too embarrassed to ask.