03-15-2011, 04:45 AM
Interesting conversation. I think it is great to be so straight forward. it is true to take responsibility for your part in a relationship gone wrong. I joine dthe forum to get some support with just that. Interestingly, anyone calling someone a name, is often having another picture in mind associated with the name calling. My issue, i thought i was friends with a guy who was nice as first but I realised he was being manipulative, making me feel bad as he did not get one thing from me. I told him we can be friends as being new here i could really do with that. he now just ignores me and treats me like a freak which is really hurtful. now freshly hurt, i am tryignt o see how i could have done things differently. The support is to receive advice on how to deal with this and even try and understand why this guy (whom I must stilll meet) is acting this strange way. on top of it my reaction is to ask him to not speak to me and leave me alone. Funny that we have to work together so how the hell am i to act when feeling so disappointed and hurt. Is he being a jerk or was i the stupid one to think we could be friends, believing his words?