03-15-2011, 03:18 AM
hej there,
Just read your post. So sorry to hear about your gf. Something that worked for me in a similar situation a while back was, my guy called a few friends over to spend time with me. it helped to talk about things and other things more importantly. In the morning, he shopped and prepared a beautiful breakfast for us and made himself vacant for the rest of the day. This kind of support was so appreciated. Your gf, may feel guilty for feeling bad and does nto want to bring you down. it gets to a stage where no can mean yes and yes can mean no. Very confusing but if you can try and listen to what she does not say, how she behaves and the way she says things, she may start to feel very supported by your insight this way. Offcourse, tread with care and let her know in your way that you are there for her, providing a safe forum to talk whenever she wants. Sorry if this does not help. Hope it gets better for her. If she feels worse, you may need to take her to the doctors as some medicine can help lift her mood up before it starts to effect her health and general wellbeing.
Just read your post. So sorry to hear about your gf. Something that worked for me in a similar situation a while back was, my guy called a few friends over to spend time with me. it helped to talk about things and other things more importantly. In the morning, he shopped and prepared a beautiful breakfast for us and made himself vacant for the rest of the day. This kind of support was so appreciated. Your gf, may feel guilty for feeling bad and does nto want to bring you down. it gets to a stage where no can mean yes and yes can mean no. Very confusing but if you can try and listen to what she does not say, how she behaves and the way she says things, she may start to feel very supported by your insight this way. Offcourse, tread with care and let her know in your way that you are there for her, providing a safe forum to talk whenever she wants. Sorry if this does not help. Hope it gets better for her. If she feels worse, you may need to take her to the doctors as some medicine can help lift her mood up before it starts to effect her health and general wellbeing.