03-15-2011, 02:54 AM
(This post was last modified: 04-03-2011, 04:41 AM by monique12345.)
There was this guy. He was odd and quite upfront. I liked his confidence and he then started to state how attractive he found me. He was quite open with his feelings and after a chat he agreed to be friends and I asked him to stop as he made me feel like uncomfortable with his fantasies. We agreed to be friends and care for one another, easy for me to do as it is my nature. Then he was going through something and I offcourse showed my support by emailing and texting him. he would not respond and as a result I emailed more and cutting a long story short, he turns around like I have an issue with him, harassing him even and wants nothing to do with. We have to work together so this makes it very hard. I do not get what has happened and I certainly do not know what to do to not feel hurt by all this. My response was to leave me alone and I hate how things have evolved. if anyone can explain what I can do to help me, and to explain what the hell happened here then I be grateful. Am alone here in a new country and I have to come to terms with the fact that this new friendship is over and was never going to work. hard for me since I really could do with some good friends. Teary eyed and feeling all alone.