I'm tired of feeling lonley...

[Mous]

He must figure out himself what's wrong to be able to fix it. If he doesn't, he'll end up alone and miserable.

So, you're saying that giving advice for him to think over in his head,
won't help him at all? You're ignorant, if that's the case.
I honestly TL;DR 'ed most of that, when I saw that after skimming over your statement.


As far as OP goes;

This isn't about what you "deserve". Not in the least.
This is saying that, a kind of woman that not *everyone* would go
for, might be better, because then you don't feel as though you have to
compete with other people.

Now, mind you, if the woman is any decent at all, that wouldn't matter,
but, sadly that's not how the REALLY good looking women are 90% of the time.

Not only that, you have less of a chance of a woman dumping you
for the next interesting love life if she's more of a homely
kind of girl. Usually nerds, or conservative women. You give up on
having immediate/quick action in the sack (most of the time) but you
also can be sure that there's not much chance that she'll replace you for
some dude that's a stud.

Again, this advice is kinda stereotypical, but with the kind of women you
see in the USA, this works 75% of the time, if not more.