03-14-2011, 01:26 PM
Seriously, what's up with all the hating.
I don't like people like him who are to scared to live.
fudge man, you can give him as much tips and guides to follow as you want.
You can come up with as many metaphors and examples as you want. It will not help, at all.
You really think he'll change his behaviour because of your oh-so-sweet replies? fudge no.
What he needs is to be woken up out of his dream.
What's the real problem in his situation? Not the people around him, not his confidence, not his looks, not his resources.
It's him, it is his damn way of thinking.
He's expecting everything to come to him, just everything. And he doesn't even realise it.
Even now he's not actually trying to break the pattern. He's going on the web expecting other people to fix his problems for him.
To round this up;
None of the post in this thread will help him change his life. That's NOT how it works.
He must figure out himself what's wrong to be able to fix it. If he doesn't, he'll end up alone and miserable.
Call me harsh, call me ignorant, call me shallow, but I've been trough way more than most of you can imagine. I know what I'm talking about.
I don't like people like him who are to scared to live.
fudge man, you can give him as much tips and guides to follow as you want.
You can come up with as many metaphors and examples as you want. It will not help, at all.
You really think he'll change his behaviour because of your oh-so-sweet replies? fudge no.
What he needs is to be woken up out of his dream.
What's the real problem in his situation? Not the people around him, not his confidence, not his looks, not his resources.
It's him, it is his damn way of thinking.
He's expecting everything to come to him, just everything. And he doesn't even realise it.
Even now he's not actually trying to break the pattern. He's going on the web expecting other people to fix his problems for him.
To round this up;
None of the post in this thread will help him change his life. That's NOT how it works.
He must figure out himself what's wrong to be able to fix it. If he doesn't, he'll end up alone and miserable.
Call me harsh, call me ignorant, call me shallow, but I've been trough way more than most of you can imagine. I know what I'm talking about.