I'm tired of feeling lonley...

[ThermalYew1]

Theres this girl that I work with, the other day she caught me staring at her... well her friend did and pointed it out to her by pointing to me and I just quickly looked away... but case in point... I think I've already made too much of an ass out of my self with her that theres no way she'd even consider going out with me.... plus I don't really talk to her.. but any point... ive just decided to move on and see if I can find somone at school ya know?? Even though thats a long shot lol...

This isn't just a *you* thing, you also have to find someone compatible with you.
Maybe, you're looking at the wrong type of girl. Instead of looking for the
15 on a scale of 10, you should look for someone that is more your pace.

Honestly, I'm not saying you don't DESERVE someone like that,
or that there isn't a nerd with braces that isn't ridiculously hot, and would love you.

Ugh, this one's hard to explain. Basically, instead of aiming your sights super high, knock yourself down a peg.
I've done this, this is also very humbling because then you realize that you're not as amazing as you might think.
That's kind of an introspective look on things. (that's more of a statement aimed at players and what not, but you get my point)

The long and short of this is;
with damn near 7 billion people in this world, you'll find someone that makes you so happy you want to burst.
Just give yourself plenty of time, and talk to more people. Seriously, I can't stress this enough,
"Show interest, but don't immediately beg for a relationship".

Also, ending note, if you find a girl that immediately wants one, walk the fudge away. o.o

See thats another thing I know I don't deserve someone all around that pretty ya know?? but I have went one on I guess u could say 2 dates... I'd hate to say they were dates but what else would ya call them ya know? Lets just say I went out of my scale and yeah they didn't work out. But I did try and give them a chance and they were extremely nice and I beat my self up everyday about why I can't like them but I just dont...

You should tell one or some of your closest friends this too, let them know how you feel and if they really are your true friends, they will help you. By the way, there is a girl out there for you, I'm sure near you, you just have to get up, go out, and go get her, but again, you have to have confidence in yourself buddy.

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[QUOTE='Mous' pid='175731' dateline='1300082804']

See for the most part im... embarrassed to tell them how I feel.. I've told a few and they tell me that I should go and talk to this girl I like but I know she'd be thinking wtf r u talking ta me ya know??? See personality goes a looong way and she's an extremely nice person... so she's the type of person that wouldn't say that but be thinking it.... :/ but that doesn't go for her for other ones to ya know?

[quote='wtftwice' pid='175769' dateline='1300108710']
Note: PLEASE, do not date one of the less "prettier" rude girls that go around thinking they're the s**t. That's the worst thing you could possibly do.

oh believe me that's a really turn off for me. I have no interest what so ever for those type of girls.

Yeah, you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.

Well OP, you don't need to be a jerk. They go for the 'jerks' because they're the ones that are talking. You don't go out of your way to make them laugh, involve them in your life, or make any attempt to make the 'jerk' kids sit down. You don't have to be a jerk; you have to have confidence in yourself in a sense that you can say "I'm a good looking guy, and I want to date that girl. There's nothing stopping me.", and going up to her and talking to her. You have to move past that fear of rejection or whatever fear that is creeping on you, and just talk to girls. After a while, as you start to become more comfortable with them, they'll start to become much more comfortable with you.

As for feeling alone. You seem to be younger and in high school, but you should try and build healthier and stronger bonds with your family and friends. A girlfriend is great in forming a very intimate connection with someone, but you have friends and family that can also make your life great by just being there. A girlfriend won't make you any less alone, because although you feel alone, you have friends and family (i'm assuming no bad problems regarding both, I'm sorry if there's something big there) that are great emotional and personal connections that are irreplaceable.

Naa im out of high school... see all though school I was really heavy and never really had friends and no girl ever noticed me, they still don't now Ive lost like 115lbs but yeah... it just gets to me cause all my friends have someone and yet I don't... and it sucks even more cause im work at retail and so all day I have to see couples coming in and it just hurts even more... I mean it'd be nice to tell someone if something good happens to me instead of calling up my mom or telling her when something good happened ya know?