03-05-2011, 06:52 PM
Hey.
It all started when I was dating emily (who is now my ex(using names to make it easier). When we where dating she introduced me to one of her friends. When me and emily broke up her friend started texting me (her friend is erica), we talked for along time. Now 3 years later we both have developed strong feelings for each other. I love her and so does she, one problem... we haven't met IRL. I asked her to hang out several times but it was always a "busy" or "sorry I cant", When she would ask me to hang out I would either be "busy" or "couldnt" (not taht i didnt want to). One of the reasons being is we live on opposite sides of the city making it almost impossible. And now here we are. I hate myself for loving her because I havnt met her irl... If we do meet it will most likely be really awkward. Does anyone know what I should do? I have tryed to move on a bunch of times but I feel "empty" when i dont talk to her then she texts me and we go from there. We dont NOT meet because im afraid of girls or w.e like we have skype video/audio chatted for hours. Im really confused on what I should do. She's the only girl who I have ever met that got to know me and didnt say "ew loser" (emily was using me to get close to my friend... that bitch)
help please
It all started when I was dating emily (who is now my ex(using names to make it easier). When we where dating she introduced me to one of her friends. When me and emily broke up her friend started texting me (her friend is erica), we talked for along time. Now 3 years later we both have developed strong feelings for each other. I love her and so does she, one problem... we haven't met IRL. I asked her to hang out several times but it was always a "busy" or "sorry I cant", When she would ask me to hang out I would either be "busy" or "couldnt" (not taht i didnt want to). One of the reasons being is we live on opposite sides of the city making it almost impossible. And now here we are. I hate myself for loving her because I havnt met her irl... If we do meet it will most likely be really awkward. Does anyone know what I should do? I have tryed to move on a bunch of times but I feel "empty" when i dont talk to her then she texts me and we go from there. We dont NOT meet because im afraid of girls or w.e like we have skype video/audio chatted for hours. Im really confused on what I should do. She's the only girl who I have ever met that got to know me and didnt say "ew loser" (emily was using me to get close to my friend... that bitch)
help please