02-19-2011, 12:17 PM
How are her parents dealing with the situation although from the sounds of it, they are preoccupied with their own problems as well which in turn is reflecting upon her but maybe you need to talk to both her parents and her to resolve the issue better as it seems it's a mutual problem which has bestowed upon you now too.
As for college, in the current situation you're in it'd be hard to go back so perhaps it might be better to take a break, find a good apprenticeship of some sort to make sure you actually want to do that and then return which is what it seems you're striving to do. However, for now you must address the relationship issue as if you don't solve that, it's going to keep causing more conflict. As I said, talking to her family as a whole might be more effective and if they don't wish to cooperate, then perhaps it's time to move on as unfortunately some people refuse to seek help and there's not much you can do for them.
As for college, in the current situation you're in it'd be hard to go back so perhaps it might be better to take a break, find a good apprenticeship of some sort to make sure you actually want to do that and then return which is what it seems you're striving to do. However, for now you must address the relationship issue as if you don't solve that, it's going to keep causing more conflict. As I said, talking to her family as a whole might be more effective and if they don't wish to cooperate, then perhaps it's time to move on as unfortunately some people refuse to seek help and there's not much you can do for them.
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