02-18-2011, 06:42 PM
Right, so I've been with my girlfriend for over 5 months now. We were on and off for about 5 months before that as she cheated on me numerous times. This was apparently down to her coming out of a 2 year relationship and her head being all over the place.
Anyway, about 5 months ago, we got together for the final time. I moved into her parents house (we're both 17) and things were going good. I attended sixth form and she was at college. In November, I left school due to not being able to keep up with the work as I had picked 4 reasonably hard subjects. I started searching for work soon after.
Up until a few days ago, I had no responses for work whatsoever, and now I have the opportunity of either of 2 jobs. Meanwhile, my girlfriend had been attending college, up until 3 weeks ago. She's had the last 3 weeks off college and has been diagnosed with severe depression, resulting in her officially leaving today. I'm not 100% sure why she has left college, he claims it's because she doesn't like going out the house, but she will willingly go out for any other reason. She may have possibly done this as I'm at home all day, but whilst she's here I can't get anything done as if I even go on my iPod she gets annoyed with me for not spending time with her.
Also, her nan has just been diagnosed with inoperable cancer, which has led to my girlfriend getting upset all the time because she's worried.
Our relationship is nothing like it used to be, at the start of it whenever she was in my company, she never left me on my own and was always by my side which was really cute, but now she never wants to spend time with me. During the daytime all she will do is watch TV, and at night she complains that she doesn't want to watch TV and wants to do something with her days. When I suggest things to do, she finds any excuse she can to not do what I suggested. We never spend time alone, it's always with her parents there. I think the only thing we do together is go to sleep, and by that time the day is over so we can't do anything.
Our sexlife has also deteriorated, she just doesn't seem interested anymore and I've lost interested from lack of passion from her.
There's also a lot of things going on in my mind right now, for example I would like to get my own paintball gun and join a paintball team, yet I feel she is holding me back on my whole life and all my ambitions. I didn't really have a proper childhood as from the age of about 7 through to 14, we were building my parents house so I was busy all the time. When I was 15, I was at the hospital every day visiting my nan who had cancer. She died the day after my 16th birthday, and then my parents split up, so that messed my life up a lot as well. I've only just started properly talking to my dad again after he left my mum. I rarely see him and would like to rebuild my relationship with him yet I'm jealous of my 13 year old sister who sees him every Wednesday.
Anyway, is there any possible way that someone could suggest resulting in me being happy? Should I leave my girlfriend? Move back home? Please, someone help me find happiness.
Sorry for the lifestory, I tried to explain as much as possible so everyone would understand. Credit to anyone who reads it all.
~B
Anyway, about 5 months ago, we got together for the final time. I moved into her parents house (we're both 17) and things were going good. I attended sixth form and she was at college. In November, I left school due to not being able to keep up with the work as I had picked 4 reasonably hard subjects. I started searching for work soon after.
Up until a few days ago, I had no responses for work whatsoever, and now I have the opportunity of either of 2 jobs. Meanwhile, my girlfriend had been attending college, up until 3 weeks ago. She's had the last 3 weeks off college and has been diagnosed with severe depression, resulting in her officially leaving today. I'm not 100% sure why she has left college, he claims it's because she doesn't like going out the house, but she will willingly go out for any other reason. She may have possibly done this as I'm at home all day, but whilst she's here I can't get anything done as if I even go on my iPod she gets annoyed with me for not spending time with her.
Also, her nan has just been diagnosed with inoperable cancer, which has led to my girlfriend getting upset all the time because she's worried.
Our relationship is nothing like it used to be, at the start of it whenever she was in my company, she never left me on my own and was always by my side which was really cute, but now she never wants to spend time with me. During the daytime all she will do is watch TV, and at night she complains that she doesn't want to watch TV and wants to do something with her days. When I suggest things to do, she finds any excuse she can to not do what I suggested. We never spend time alone, it's always with her parents there. I think the only thing we do together is go to sleep, and by that time the day is over so we can't do anything.
Our sexlife has also deteriorated, she just doesn't seem interested anymore and I've lost interested from lack of passion from her.
There's also a lot of things going on in my mind right now, for example I would like to get my own paintball gun and join a paintball team, yet I feel she is holding me back on my whole life and all my ambitions. I didn't really have a proper childhood as from the age of about 7 through to 14, we were building my parents house so I was busy all the time. When I was 15, I was at the hospital every day visiting my nan who had cancer. She died the day after my 16th birthday, and then my parents split up, so that messed my life up a lot as well. I've only just started properly talking to my dad again after he left my mum. I rarely see him and would like to rebuild my relationship with him yet I'm jealous of my 13 year old sister who sees him every Wednesday.
Anyway, is there any possible way that someone could suggest resulting in me being happy? Should I leave my girlfriend? Move back home? Please, someone help me find happiness.
Sorry for the lifestory, I tried to explain as much as possible so everyone would understand. Credit to anyone who reads it all.
~B