02-17-2011, 09:31 AM
First things first. This girl is confused about her feelings and it is hurting you. The best action you can take right now is to do nothing. Don't contact her for two weeks. Don't contact her to tell her that you won't contact her. Just let the raised emotions calm down. What you are feeling is very natural, and you will feel more in control after two weeks of non-contact.
Secondly, use the time to take care of your feelings. Don't complicate your emotions by using other people, alcohol, or drugs. Focus on working out, develop a new interest, or make new friends. In other words, introduce something new and healthy into your daily routine.
Finally, come back and tell us how you feel in two weeks' time. You may still feel awful, but you will also feel more in control.
Secondly, use the time to take care of your feelings. Don't complicate your emotions by using other people, alcohol, or drugs. Focus on working out, develop a new interest, or make new friends. In other words, introduce something new and healthy into your daily routine.
Finally, come back and tell us how you feel in two weeks' time. You may still feel awful, but you will also feel more in control.