02-11-2011, 02:37 AM
You should not "stand up for her" because you think she feels that away about what they're doing and/or saying. You should talk to her first, if it is offending to her then you should stand up for her of course with her given permission. This would is not about the stronger person, but how does it make the other person feel. If you cannot build the guts to ask her then you should not intervene in her personal life.