02-03-2011, 11:39 PM
Hey all. This is my first time coming here for any type of advice, so please take it easy on me.
So as you can tell by the title, I'm going to losing my virginity. In two days, actually. I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16 and we've been together for three months now. As far as sexual acts, I've only fingered her and she's given me a handjob. We're both virgins. I am ready to lose my virginity now, so I don't need anyone asking me to reconsider the situation and to make sure I'm ready. I am sure that I am ready, and it's not an issue.
So here are some questions I really need answered:
1. Can anyone give me some tips/general advice for having sex for the first time? I actually can't last too long (when it comes to masturbation) and I'm sure the same will apply when I have sex. Any help there?
2. The location. We can't have sex at either of our houses, so we're going out on a date that day then going to do it. Either we can in the car, or possibly a motel. I would rather it be in a bed, but is it even okay for a 17 year old to rent a motel room that we could in? Sorry if I'm very ignorant, I've never really thought about it.
3. What type of condoms would you recommend for the first time? Brandwise, etc. I'll be using protection and I've never boughten any before.
Any help and advice is very appreciated. Thank you.
So as you can tell by the title, I'm going to losing my virginity. In two days, actually. I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16 and we've been together for three months now. As far as sexual acts, I've only fingered her and she's given me a handjob. We're both virgins. I am ready to lose my virginity now, so I don't need anyone asking me to reconsider the situation and to make sure I'm ready. I am sure that I am ready, and it's not an issue.
So here are some questions I really need answered:
1. Can anyone give me some tips/general advice for having sex for the first time? I actually can't last too long (when it comes to masturbation) and I'm sure the same will apply when I have sex. Any help there?
2. The location. We can't have sex at either of our houses, so we're going out on a date that day then going to do it. Either we can in the car, or possibly a motel. I would rather it be in a bed, but is it even okay for a 17 year old to rent a motel room that we could in? Sorry if I'm very ignorant, I've never really thought about it.
3. What type of condoms would you recommend for the first time? Brandwise, etc. I'll be using protection and I've never boughten any before.
Any help and advice is very appreciated. Thank you.