01-30-2011, 08:55 PM
Alright so basically I ended up meeting this girl in one of my classes. She is a cute girl but I never really started noticing until we ended up being in the same groups for class and started talking a bit more. She ended up liking me a lot and she ended up getting a group of people from my ethics class to hate me because they took what I said completely wrong and they thought I didn't like her. To end it all I confronted her about it and we decided to give this a chance. We have been going out for about a week and I've been pretty happy. Most of her family likes me. Lately, she has been just having an straight up attitude I don't like. She's been doubting me a lot and every time I bring that up she says it takes a lot to gain her trust. She won't tell me anything and she ends up talking to her ex about her problems and doubts saying she doesn't want to make the same mistakes.
I really want this relationship to work, but shes making it more complicated than it needs to be... A lot of this consists of her not telling me whats wrong, so ill be bothered and shell ask whats wrong with me when clearly the problem is her not telling me. I am one of those people that gets into relationships a lot and she still says at times she has her doubts about me and herself.
I want this to work. I wish things would. Any advice? I really don't know what to do anymore... Thanks SF!
I really want this relationship to work, but shes making it more complicated than it needs to be... A lot of this consists of her not telling me whats wrong, so ill be bothered and shell ask whats wrong with me when clearly the problem is her not telling me. I am one of those people that gets into relationships a lot and she still says at times she has her doubts about me and herself.
I want this to work. I wish things would. Any advice? I really don't know what to do anymore... Thanks SF!