How woud everyone react?

[Death Trap™]

I also have autistic. Despite if it happens today, I might not feel anything at all. Maybe in the future I think about it, I might feel a sense of slight depression and a tear in my eye when sharing it with close individuals. Even though that feeling only last a few seconds, I don't feel anything after that. In a sense, even if a member was that close to you, they would probably wish you not to dwell in the misery and look up to them you will see them again and continue living your life. They would want you to see you excel. Make them proud.

Girls might tend to have more of that sympathy or empathy which their emotions magnifies it probably double or 10x if she is more closer to that particular member.