12-28-2010, 02:16 AM
(This post was last modified: 12-28-2010, 02:18 AM by somerandom1992.)
So I once had these two friends..For privacy sakes I won't use their real names..Lets call them Rex and Emily..
Over a year ago now. I had a big crush on Rex which turned into love. (this was before he met Emily) I told him this and initially he was quite fine with it. He rejected me however he was nice about it and we remained friends as we were during this time.
ANyway not long after, he met Emily and she too liked him which I was quite fine with really, I did not get jealous of the two or anything. A month later they started going out.
I was friends with the two for quite a while. However little did I realise i was a little bit clingy towards Rex. I began to let go of my feelings for him and started to see him more of a brother. A while later, Emily began to start hating me and being downright rude and started to get upset if she saw him with me without her there.
Then, three months ago, they snapped at me. Told me that i stare at them and annoy the crap out of them. They said very hurtful things. They told me they never wanted to talk tome again, EVER and they don'twant me around them. I was extremely hurt and saddened I even cried about it. I tried to apologise many times but they wouldn't have it.
Three months later, I am still not over it. Her not being my friend anymore I have dealt with. But him, I really miss his friendship, he was the best friend when he was friendly towards him. They haven't spoken to me since.
I never meant to annoy them, Ijust wanted to be a great friend of them both. It is like being betrayed by a brother. Her not so much because I haven't known her as long as I have him (two years)
Anyone have ideas of how i can fix this? please?
By the way, we are all 18 years of age. They may sound like 14,15 year olds but they aren't.
Over a year ago now. I had a big crush on Rex which turned into love. (this was before he met Emily) I told him this and initially he was quite fine with it. He rejected me however he was nice about it and we remained friends as we were during this time.
ANyway not long after, he met Emily and she too liked him which I was quite fine with really, I did not get jealous of the two or anything. A month later they started going out.
I was friends with the two for quite a while. However little did I realise i was a little bit clingy towards Rex. I began to let go of my feelings for him and started to see him more of a brother. A while later, Emily began to start hating me and being downright rude and started to get upset if she saw him with me without her there.
Then, three months ago, they snapped at me. Told me that i stare at them and annoy the crap out of them. They said very hurtful things. They told me they never wanted to talk tome again, EVER and they don'twant me around them. I was extremely hurt and saddened I even cried about it. I tried to apologise many times but they wouldn't have it.
Three months later, I am still not over it. Her not being my friend anymore I have dealt with. But him, I really miss his friendship, he was the best friend when he was friendly towards him. They haven't spoken to me since.
I never meant to annoy them, Ijust wanted to be a great friend of them both. It is like being betrayed by a brother. Her not so much because I haven't known her as long as I have him (two years)
Anyone have ideas of how i can fix this? please?
By the way, we are all 18 years of age. They may sound like 14,15 year olds but they aren't.