12-27-2010, 12:43 AM
(12-25-2010, 10:30 AM)SleepyTroll Wrote: You sir are experiencing peer pressure. From the time your friends say " you can do better" you will never look at her the same again...
I agree with this wholeheartedly. It's only natural to want to do the best that you can.
As a general rule, once you hit the level of "friends with benefits", it's incredibly hard, if not impossible, to go back to being just friends because the emotions will always be there.
One party will contemplate the reasons behind the others change of mind.
It's unfortunate, but this is part of relationships. Occasionally you just decide that you don't like someone as much - even if it is due to peer pressure.
And this change of heart leads to a breaking of hearts, but it's something everyone needs to go. In my opinion it helps build stronger, healthier emotions..most of the time.
The hard part here is loosing her as a friend..