12-22-2010, 12:05 AM
(This post was last modified: 12-22-2010, 12:08 AM by Dont Worry.)
Well, I read your entire OP and I gotta say something. How are you dealing with all this? How do you feel? Also if you think that your grand mother is completely un-bearable, then I think you should work out something about putting her in a home. I know you said you could not afford it, but try talking to the owner or something if you and your family really can not handle her.
One more thing. I think this idea is stupid but I am putting it out there. Could your grandma be classified as "Insane"? You could maybe put her in an insane asylum. I really do not want this statement to offend you in any way, so please do not be offended. I watched the video and all I can say is I feel really sorry for her, and your entire family dealing with all of this.
I think to benefit your mother a LOT, maybe you should suggest to her, to go on a vacation for like 2 or 3 days and in that time maybe you can take care of her? That way if your mother does ever "blow it", it will be much longer and that might reduce her stress.
I dont know if you have a job, or if you are a student, your age, or anything like that, so please take all these suggestions as if I know nothing about your family. These thoughts just popped into my head and I felt like sharing it. If you ever want to talk or ANYTHING of that sort, you can PM me here and I will give you my MSN or something..
Take care.
I just read that, Sorry I did not read the comments.
One more thing. I think this idea is stupid but I am putting it out there. Could your grandma be classified as "Insane"? You could maybe put her in an insane asylum. I really do not want this statement to offend you in any way, so please do not be offended. I watched the video and all I can say is I feel really sorry for her, and your entire family dealing with all of this.
I think to benefit your mother a LOT, maybe you should suggest to her, to go on a vacation for like 2 or 3 days and in that time maybe you can take care of her? That way if your mother does ever "blow it", it will be much longer and that might reduce her stress.
I dont know if you have a job, or if you are a student, your age, or anything like that, so please take all these suggestions as if I know nothing about your family. These thoughts just popped into my head and I felt like sharing it. If you ever want to talk or ANYTHING of that sort, you can PM me here and I will give you my MSN or something..
Take care.
(09-22-2010, 07:12 AM)Solidify Wrote: I appreciate the suggestions on how to handle the situations but as I stated, at the time being, that's just not an option. The money cannot be rounded up, even if we tried. When my uncle passed, she took my uncle's share of savings, as my grandmother would have wanted, and spent the money on a new car as it was a necessity. We have nothing left to pay for the retirement home.
I just read that, Sorry I did not read the comments.