12-13-2010, 07:35 PM
Its good that she's seeing a consular, thats means she took a step in the right direction. Anything she tells you that might give of the slightest hint that she is going to kill herself, take it seriously. If she says something like "Everyone hates me, i wish i was dead." Take it dead serious. Tell her guidance consular or an adult she trusts. Don't take the burden on your shoulders, let professionals help you (and her.)
I would try to find out whats making her depressed, because i'm thinking there could be another thing bothering her. Maybe she is afraid of being raped again? If thats the case, theres usually self defense classes around most towns/cities in the U.S (you should come too, if you think that would help.)
One important thing to remember is too never act annoyed or slightly mean to her. For example if she says things like it your fault, agree with her and NEVER complain or act like its not your problem.
Other than that i wish you and her the best of luck.
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I would try to find out whats making her depressed, because i'm thinking there could be another thing bothering her. Maybe she is afraid of being raped again? If thats the case, theres usually self defense classes around most towns/cities in the U.S (you should come too, if you think that would help.)
One important thing to remember is too never act annoyed or slightly mean to her. For example if she says things like it your fault, agree with her and NEVER complain or act like its not your problem.
Other than that i wish you and her the best of luck.
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