12-10-2010, 01:29 PM
(12-10-2010, 04:42 AM)null_trace18 Wrote: Although, I wouldn't necessarily endorse dating at such a young age, in this case, it sounds like you just need a friend. If you want a girlfriend and you feel that you are really ready to experience love, then I would suggest to just practice in the mirror talking to the girl and before you go to sleep, imagine talking to her and go through each realistic scenario that might happen. It will help you realize that you have a more realistic chance. And when you go to school and see her, think in your head what you thought of those realistic scenarios. Fight the urge to ask her out and just compliment her and simply walk away. Trust me, she will not make fun of you if you compliment her. Do this about once every 2 weeks, except find something different to compliment her on each time. And after about 2 months or so, you can ask her if she wants to sit with you at lunch or if there is a dance, ask her to that. She will be appreciative of the compliments and give you a chance at making her happy. DON'T ruin this chance as some will not give you a second. And remember girls love to be complimented and they love for you to pay them attention. Listen to everything they have to say and respect them. And above all, be a gentlemen, look up what chivalry is. Open doors for her, help her in her chair, etc. This should help you at least be friends with the girl enough to get you to ask her out. The main fear you have to get over is rejection, if you get rejected, which I doubt since you complimented her as I told you to do earlier, what will happen? Big deal, you walk away and nobody gets hurt. No one will laugh because everyone has been there.
But as I said, I wouldn't date at such a young age, as you could get seriously hurt by love if you don't know what you're doing. Just be careful, man. Learn from other's mistakes. This probably won't stop you, thats why I told you how to at least become friends with her. But just please be careful.
Thanks, a lot.
I'm nice to her and do stuff for her a lot, just that I don't really.. well meh. You know.
But, I don't really want to wait, mostly because she's actually been asked out a few times (said no to everyone that did), and well... yeah.