12-08-2010, 02:11 PM
(This post was last modified: 12-08-2010, 04:27 PM by Hello my name is:.)
I know a lot of people are going to tell me that it'll come with time and that this kind of stuff shouldn't be a rush and believe me, I know that. But when one by one, all of your close friends are finally getting laid for the first time, it feels like I'm standing still. I'm 18 years old and I've had girlfriends in the past but I sort of hit this dry season. For chrissake, kids are starting to have sex at 14 years old nowadays and I've never even made-out with a girl. The most I've done is cuddle and kiss. But I'm not a nerd. I have plenty of friends, I'm really funny and make a lot of people laugh IRL but I'm just getting worried that its taking so long. I don't want to hit that point of desperation where I say to myself "Well, if it hasn't happened yet, why try anymore", which is unfortunately what some men result to.
Does anyone have some reassuring advice? Preferably from someone that is or was in my situation, give or take a couple years difference.
Does anyone have some reassuring advice? Preferably from someone that is or was in my situation, give or take a couple years difference.