11-25-2010, 09:52 PM
I'd agree with Euphoric, she's definitely embarrassed about the subject. There's no other reason why people don't report this kind of stuff because it's very secretive and sacred. If you called the police though maybe she wouldn't want her parents finding out, but wouldn't it be better sorting things out early before she has waited too long. Especially if she gets pregnant.
I'm sure if she wanted it to, they could keep it a closed discussion, so that no one has to know, but it still gets dealt with. She might feel a little cautious about people figuring it out after the police got involved, but it's a serious issue. And the person who raped her would most likely get the bad rep, since rape is not thought of too highly in society.
At 13 too. That's fairly bad. It would be beneficial to get things dealt with. She needs a friend to make sure that things will be ok. And I say you should contact the police, since you wouldn't want that kid to turn out to be accused of even worse sexual assaults in the future when he grows up. That's how the rape and murder scenario would most likely start. Get it sorted out, I'm sure she'll understand sooner or later that it was for the best.
I'm sure if she wanted it to, they could keep it a closed discussion, so that no one has to know, but it still gets dealt with. She might feel a little cautious about people figuring it out after the police got involved, but it's a serious issue. And the person who raped her would most likely get the bad rep, since rape is not thought of too highly in society.
At 13 too. That's fairly bad. It would be beneficial to get things dealt with. She needs a friend to make sure that things will be ok. And I say you should contact the police, since you wouldn't want that kid to turn out to be accused of even worse sexual assaults in the future when he grows up. That's how the rape and murder scenario would most likely start. Get it sorted out, I'm sure she'll understand sooner or later that it was for the best.