11-06-2010, 06:22 PM
Well I'm not a fan of eight paragraph stories about how my problems make my life miserable, so I'll keep this as short as possible.
Not to seem rude or anything, but I feel as though I'm pretty respected/liked as opposed to hated and looked at as an idiot throughout the forums, and that I have plenty of friends.
However, in real life, I suck at communicating with people. The words never come out right when I say them like they do when I chat with people via msn, etc.
I used to be fine, people still laugh when I say jokes in class and stuff; but nothing big anymore. I can't be myself IRL like I can on the internets. I'm not trying to make a huge friend group on the internets either, I just can't do it irl anymore. I'm a lot less addicted than I used to be and I've been talking more, but I can't even talk to girls like I used to either. When I message them I just say 'hey' and that's how they will respond if they lead them into nothing, and then the conversation dies after 'whats up' because I can't think of anything anymore.
Any tips
Not to seem rude or anything, but I feel as though I'm pretty respected/liked as opposed to hated and looked at as an idiot throughout the forums, and that I have plenty of friends.
However, in real life, I suck at communicating with people. The words never come out right when I say them like they do when I chat with people via msn, etc.
I used to be fine, people still laugh when I say jokes in class and stuff; but nothing big anymore. I can't be myself IRL like I can on the internets. I'm not trying to make a huge friend group on the internets either, I just can't do it irl anymore. I'm a lot less addicted than I used to be and I've been talking more, but I can't even talk to girls like I used to either. When I message them I just say 'hey' and that's how they will respond if they lead them into nothing, and then the conversation dies after 'whats up' because I can't think of anything anymore.
Any tips