10-31-2010, 11:13 PM
(This post was last modified: 10-31-2010, 11:13 PM by AceInfinity.)
Yeah, do it in person. The thing is, while you're with her, your going to have to get used to doing things in person anyways. Who want's to keep it a texting relationship? (Just to ease the situation for you, I call those types of relationships "relationshit" lol)
In all seriousness however, If she is shy, get her sometime when you 2 are alone. Aside from everyone else, have a nice talk between the 2 of you. Don't just bring her somewhere out of nowhere and ask her right away. Chat a little to get her relaxed. That should be enough for her to feel comfortable around you talking. Then ask her, and smile. If she is super super shy, she might say "No" over a text if she gets really scared, and girls are not like that. It's confusing, but don't listen to them for things like that. Trust me i've learned this lol. If they said no with things like that, they really don't mean it (especially since you know her feelings for you) and they will only end up regretting it, and feeling scared to ask you again after they've already said no because they already made a choice. It's human nature, understand it.
Talk to her for a bit, while you two are one on one. Make sure she's in a comfortable position to hear the words from you (meaning she's not as nervous about being around you, and talking). Then ask her out. All you have to do is set the mood. Society always tends to want to resort to non-direct ways of doing the things we are scared to do. It's easier, but makes things worse.
In all seriousness however, If she is shy, get her sometime when you 2 are alone. Aside from everyone else, have a nice talk between the 2 of you. Don't just bring her somewhere out of nowhere and ask her right away. Chat a little to get her relaxed. That should be enough for her to feel comfortable around you talking. Then ask her, and smile. If she is super super shy, she might say "No" over a text if she gets really scared, and girls are not like that. It's confusing, but don't listen to them for things like that. Trust me i've learned this lol. If they said no with things like that, they really don't mean it (especially since you know her feelings for you) and they will only end up regretting it, and feeling scared to ask you again after they've already said no because they already made a choice. It's human nature, understand it.
Talk to her for a bit, while you two are one on one. Make sure she's in a comfortable position to hear the words from you (meaning she's not as nervous about being around you, and talking). Then ask her out. All you have to do is set the mood. Society always tends to want to resort to non-direct ways of doing the things we are scared to do. It's easier, but makes things worse.