10-13-2010, 08:25 PM
To: OP
It's understandable you're going through problems at this time,
It always seems to work out just like this. Trust me, I've went through
the same thing with my wife, like literally, the same thing.
On his side, I can tell you exactly what's going on...
He's not "in" love with you. I'm not sure if he has ever been, but you
should really catch the feel that he's not "in" love with you. Although,
It's obvious he does love you. He also feels like he's trapped in way, a bit of resentment and just down right wants to escape from it all.
You and I both know you probably ask him to stay home, and he knows
it upsets you, but he really doesn't care. The only way to take him back over is to show him what he can lose if he doesn't straighten up.
You ever heard the saying "You don't know what you have till it's gone"?
Well, that's the case you need to teach him. It worked on me.
All in all, Things will pan out.
It will get easier, then your back to more stress and confusion of your
relationship. It's life.
It's understandable you're going through problems at this time,
It always seems to work out just like this. Trust me, I've went through
the same thing with my wife, like literally, the same thing.
On his side, I can tell you exactly what's going on...
He's not "in" love with you. I'm not sure if he has ever been, but you
should really catch the feel that he's not "in" love with you. Although,
It's obvious he does love you. He also feels like he's trapped in way, a bit of resentment and just down right wants to escape from it all.
You and I both know you probably ask him to stay home, and he knows
it upsets you, but he really doesn't care. The only way to take him back over is to show him what he can lose if he doesn't straighten up.
You ever heard the saying "You don't know what you have till it's gone"?
Well, that's the case you need to teach him. It worked on me.
All in all, Things will pan out.
It will get easier, then your back to more stress and confusion of your
relationship. It's life.