10-10-2010, 08:03 PM
Alright there is quite a bit here..
PLEASE READ THE WHOLE THING.
Well first I'm 16 years old.
Basically my problem is the life situation Im in right now.
My girlfriend who I'm deeply in love with moved away in March or so.
We started dating January 15th, 2010. I've been inlove with this girl pretty much my whole entire life. I met her in the 2nd grade and we dated all throughout elementry. Middle school we dated a couple of times then in 9th grade (freshman) we finally hit it off. We messed around from September through November basically. She played with my emotions because I was quite the wall. I told her how I felt through text but in real life I never really showed any type of emotion. She played with my heart and emotions and dated many other guys. She slept with this fool ass bitch named Rick and another prick named Jim. (Not their real names for privacy.)
Now before this she lost her virginity to a kid named Kenny. This was awhile ago and I didn't really mind it much. Then she messed with another kid named Vincent, but supposedly she didn't have sex with him. So her little list of guys, (Kenny, Jim, Rick) these were her 3 sex partners. Then I came along as her 4th. She took my virginity, in a bathroom. Now Kenny she was in love with, Jim she liked a lot, and Rick is the tricky one.. She claims that she only slept with Rick to prove a point to me. Since I didn't show emotions she did it to see if I would care. Which of course I did. She dated Rick for a couple of months before me. Me and Rick were "friends" but not really.
Basically the whole problem with it is that it bothers me about the guys she slept with. Especially Rick. I just don't know what to do and I can't get over it. Ontop of that she lied to me quite a bit and cheated once.. but then she is the biggest flirt ever. She flirts with soo many guys. Now since she has moved away I can't trust her and we fight constantly.
BUT I"M IN LOVE WITH HER. Like honestly in love. Now my Dad retired from the military as well so he has been outta a job. He needs a job and where I live currently is probably the worst place to find a job. So we might move. But my girlfriend lives 3 hrs away from where I live now.
I don't know what to do.
I might move further away from my girlfriend.
I can't get over her past.
Me and my girlfriend fight CONSTANTLY.
I don't wanna lose her.. ;(
So what should I do guys..?
PLEASE READ THE WHOLE THING.
Well first I'm 16 years old.
Basically my problem is the life situation Im in right now.
My girlfriend who I'm deeply in love with moved away in March or so.
We started dating January 15th, 2010. I've been inlove with this girl pretty much my whole entire life. I met her in the 2nd grade and we dated all throughout elementry. Middle school we dated a couple of times then in 9th grade (freshman) we finally hit it off. We messed around from September through November basically. She played with my emotions because I was quite the wall. I told her how I felt through text but in real life I never really showed any type of emotion. She played with my heart and emotions and dated many other guys. She slept with this fool ass bitch named Rick and another prick named Jim. (Not their real names for privacy.)
Now before this she lost her virginity to a kid named Kenny. This was awhile ago and I didn't really mind it much. Then she messed with another kid named Vincent, but supposedly she didn't have sex with him. So her little list of guys, (Kenny, Jim, Rick) these were her 3 sex partners. Then I came along as her 4th. She took my virginity, in a bathroom. Now Kenny she was in love with, Jim she liked a lot, and Rick is the tricky one.. She claims that she only slept with Rick to prove a point to me. Since I didn't show emotions she did it to see if I would care. Which of course I did. She dated Rick for a couple of months before me. Me and Rick were "friends" but not really.
Basically the whole problem with it is that it bothers me about the guys she slept with. Especially Rick. I just don't know what to do and I can't get over it. Ontop of that she lied to me quite a bit and cheated once.. but then she is the biggest flirt ever. She flirts with soo many guys. Now since she has moved away I can't trust her and we fight constantly.
BUT I"M IN LOVE WITH HER. Like honestly in love. Now my Dad retired from the military as well so he has been outta a job. He needs a job and where I live currently is probably the worst place to find a job. So we might move. But my girlfriend lives 3 hrs away from where I live now.
I don't know what to do.
I might move further away from my girlfriend.
I can't get over her past.
Me and my girlfriend fight CONSTANTLY.
I don't wanna lose her.. ;(
So what should I do guys..?