10-04-2010, 12:17 AM
Ok here is my thoughts.
DONT BEGIN YOUR CONVERSATIONS WITH HERE ON FACEBOOK!!! I cant be any stronger in that. DONT!
Social interaction is completely different to net interaction as you clearly are aware already? Based on OP.
I know of kids that are best mates online yet at school they dont talk. <-- real problem there IMHO
Chicks (girls or woman) like to be heard. They want to be able to talk. More than they want to listen.
You need to be aware of that.
Go see her in person and say hello. No other commitments, just a hello next chance you get.
Then if she does not instigate a conversation you await the next time you meet.
Then ask her if its her on facebook. That gives her a topic she can talk about should she want to talk to you.
If she does start talking to you about that then let her talk. Ask her questions. Keep her talking until she asks you questions about yourself.
Now the reason i say for you to say hello to her first in public is because chicks like confidence in blokes.
This will show you are confident and polite.
Meeting the correct partner is a hard thing. Some are never able to do it!
You need to know this. You could talk to her and find you simply dont like her?
But you will never know if you dont try.
So go and say hello mate. Not much more. take it super slow. Consider her nothing more than a future mate.
Not a lover or girlfriend. Remove that from your thoughts for now. Just try make friends with her.
Let what ever else is to be to happen naturally.
Hope you snag this girl mate. <-- bad choice of words!
DONT BEGIN YOUR CONVERSATIONS WITH HERE ON FACEBOOK!!! I cant be any stronger in that. DONT!
Social interaction is completely different to net interaction as you clearly are aware already? Based on OP.
I know of kids that are best mates online yet at school they dont talk. <-- real problem there IMHO
Chicks (girls or woman) like to be heard. They want to be able to talk. More than they want to listen.
You need to be aware of that.
Go see her in person and say hello. No other commitments, just a hello next chance you get.
Then if she does not instigate a conversation you await the next time you meet.
Then ask her if its her on facebook. That gives her a topic she can talk about should she want to talk to you.
If she does start talking to you about that then let her talk. Ask her questions. Keep her talking until she asks you questions about yourself.
Now the reason i say for you to say hello to her first in public is because chicks like confidence in blokes.
This will show you are confident and polite.
Meeting the correct partner is a hard thing. Some are never able to do it!
You need to know this. You could talk to her and find you simply dont like her?
But you will never know if you dont try.
So go and say hello mate. Not much more. take it super slow. Consider her nothing more than a future mate.
Not a lover or girlfriend. Remove that from your thoughts for now. Just try make friends with her.
Let what ever else is to be to happen naturally.
Hope you snag this girl mate. <-- bad choice of words!