09-27-2010, 05:32 PM
Well, i could give alot of advice about this, but i will start off with the basics look at your reply and go from there. I am also 14 and have went through a lot!
first things first, like you i used to be pretty fat even though i am tall. I decided to take that into my own hands and start working out. I am 6'2 and 250 lbs. i have not changed weight wise much but what i did change is change all the fat into muscle so that i'm still big but i am athletic. it does also help you to feel better.
Next thing i say is to find you a hobby your really like because when i was really depressed that is what got me out of it is getting into playing bass guitar, and backup vocals which helped me start my band and get a crap load of confidence.
Next you say you want to be popular? well that isint how you should see it. i dont want to be popular i want to be the opposite, but that is what made me popular. i dont act like everyone else im semi-feared and everyone tends to like me but i didint try for that and i really dont like it to much.
Tell me what you think about this and reply more, if you feel the need or want to talk more add me on msn psychosis@c0dersunited.net
first things first, like you i used to be pretty fat even though i am tall. I decided to take that into my own hands and start working out. I am 6'2 and 250 lbs. i have not changed weight wise much but what i did change is change all the fat into muscle so that i'm still big but i am athletic. it does also help you to feel better.
Next thing i say is to find you a hobby your really like because when i was really depressed that is what got me out of it is getting into playing bass guitar, and backup vocals which helped me start my band and get a crap load of confidence.
Next you say you want to be popular? well that isint how you should see it. i dont want to be popular i want to be the opposite, but that is what made me popular. i dont act like everyone else im semi-feared and everyone tends to like me but i didint try for that and i really dont like it to much.
Tell me what you think about this and reply more, if you feel the need or want to talk more add me on msn psychosis@c0dersunited.net